It's an unfortunate part of life that not all people are as honest as we would like them to be and all truly free dating services will have a number of liars and cheats on them. You will have noticed earlier in this guide that we recommend registering with a paid for service, where you have to pay a small subscription charge before being able to contact your matches. This does seem to put off the people who aren't especially interested in using the service seriously!
People are clearly tempted to be dishonest on dating services in the hope of making themselves more attractive than they really are and, therefore, receiving more matches. If you've read other parts of this guide we hope that we've convinced everyone to be totally honest about themselves and with themselves. At the end of the day they're only deluding themselves and it's likely that they'll end up being single for that little while longer because of it. If you think that completely free dating services are the way to go for you then go ahead but please do keep thinking and keep your wits about you - it's can be easy for someone else to make out that they're something they're not in cyberspace.
When all is said and done it's your decision as to what type of dating service you use. However, if you use free dating services or a paid for service we always recommend that you try to move away from your service as soon as possible so that you either meet up together or at least talk on the phone. Most liars aren't very good at it and faced with questions where they have to give quick answers most will make mistakes.
Obviously, most people are good people and we wouldn't want to give you the impression that all people that use dating services are liars - they're not. We just believe that you reduce your chances of being messed around when you use subscription based rather than free dating services. Just as in the real world, it's not sensible to give away the keys to your heart too easily!
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