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Dating Advice

Making The Wrong First Move!

All people are different so we can't offer dating advice on a 'one size fits all' basis. Nevertheless, there are some pretty basic things that people often do that really won't do you any favors.

The most important thing is to write an interesting message. "Hi, I'm John. Message me!" isn't interesting. It's most likely response (muttered under the reader's breath) will probably go something like "Good for you John - hope you enjoy being single!" At the other extreme - sending a message with you full life story and resume starting from the day you were born probably won't cut it either. Maybe you really are looking for a long term partner that could lead to marriage, but saying so in your first message is likely to be a bit scary for most people - they think "Great, we'll go out for dinner. During the starter they'll ask me to marry them, during the main meal we'll plan the wedding, during dessert we'll get the honeymoon sorted and with my coffee we'll decide on the kids names!" Before you know it your message is sitting in their inbox for weeks unanswered … Take it from us - some people do sometimes send messages just like these! We hope that the dating advice found in this guide will help stop some future mistakes.

Another piece of dating advice we have to offer is don't try the 'cookie cutter' approach - where you write just one opening message and just copy and paste it into your message and fire off twenty messages in ten minutes! These types of messages are usually quite easy for a recipient to see and often get ignored. It's essential that you show that you've made a bit of an effort! Remember, any one of these people could end up being anything from your latest date to your life partner. The best policy is to knuckle under and make an effort to craft an interesting and individually tailored message!

Dating Advice

Making The Wrong First Move!

Dating Guide